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Who Me?


I am introvertly-extroverted, I made up that coined phrase-please don't use it until it is copy written, thanks! Most people aren't both or maybe there aren't enough of us standing up in the crowd proudly waving our flag. However, I will admit that I am someone who teeters this line quite often. I don't know if this has anything to do with birth order, life or all of the above but I am complex-to make it short and sweet. I love to talk, don't be fooled but I am slow to warm up to people and situations-it makes me look standoffish, so don't be alarmed. It is comical to write this because as I am typing away, I recognize that my son is just like me. He is in his own right an awesome person, but it takes him a minute to warm up to to new places and people. Once he feels comfortable, it's a wrap! More importantly, I think that it is important to know which of these you are: Extrovert or Introvert, after you determine either, or (or both- like me) it makes getting along, building business relationships etc. easier to maintain and or handle.

Okay, but how does this help me in my life?

Knowing if you’re extroverted or introverted helps with:

1. Solving problems.

2. Taking care of yourself energetically.

3. Knowing what kind of social support you need (and can tolerate.)

4 Signs Your an Introvert

1. You like doing nothing

2. You take a while to text back

3. You don't like large crowds

4. You don't trust easily

4 Signs Your an Extrovert

1. You feel energized around people

2. You don't like unfinished business

3. You have to talk about things that are bothering you

4. You usually take the leadership role

Call me crazy but I feel like I 'm learning more and more about myself every day (I thought I was past that stage). I can appreciate my complexity only because I am acknowledging my true authentic self (ain't nothing wrong with that!). So which are you an introvert or extrovert? Still can't decide well, take this quiz. Honestly, this self assessment is worth understanding how you operate so that you can move in the direction be that love, life or career that is best suited for who you are- no more struggles. As always, thanks for starting your workweek with me!

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